1) Be prepared to listen- if a best friend needs you then you need to be prepared to listen to them and give them advice on what the problem is. You need to take the time to be there for your best friend- even if it’s just a 5 minute conversation offering them advice your friend will still appreciate you being there for them.
2) Be prepared for the person to not want to tell you what’s wrong- if your best friend is hurting and they don’t want to talk to you then that’s ok. It’s their choice and you can’t force them to tell you anything,if they want to then they will. If they don’t all you need to say is if you need me then let me know and your friend will appreciate the gesture all the same.
3) Give them time to themselves- everyone needs their space and so does your best friend. If a friend asks you for some time then its important to give them that. That doesn’t mean that they aren’t your friend anymore- they probably just need time to think through some stuff.
4) Don’t be afraid to say what’s your mind-if a friend has upset you in anyway then you should tell them quickly so it doesn’t escalate and cause bigger problems later. If you do that then you can quickly sort out whatever it is that’s going on rather than waiting until a later date
5) Trust- if your friend tells you something then you should trust them, a friendship without trust isn’t worth having at all. It takes years to build up trust but only seconds to destroy it- trust that no matter the circumstance your friend is okay.
6) support-if a friend is making a big decision and they are confused about what to do let them know that you support them. That way they know that no matter what happens you have their back and it will ease the pressure of the decision slightly.
7) Be prepared to say nothing- if a friend is upset hold out your arms and hug them. Sometimes actions speak a thousands words and a hug will let your friend know that you are there for them, rather then just saying it- its important that you show it to.
8) Listen to a friends advice- a best friend is the person that knows you best in the whole world and the advice they give to you is 9/10 the best advice for you. Especially if they have been through whatever it is that your going through- they understand how your brain works so listen to what they are saying. This will show that you care about them
9) Stand up for them- if someone is pushing your friend about stand up to the person. Let them know that its not okay to treat your friend like that and show them that you aren’t prepared to tolerate any messing about. That way your friend knows that you are willing to take risks for them
10) Be nice to their boyfriend/girlfriend- if you don’t like who your friend is going out with then that’s ok, you don’t have to but its important that you be nice to them for your friends sake. Arguing with them will just make your friend unhappy and you could end up losing them so its important that you give the person the benefit of the doubt for your friends sake